And Monday goes into the workweek…how I can’t wait for the weekends…Although my husband and I have outrageous sex during the week, I long for that freedom of carefree flirtation that comes with meeting other couples…other men and other women…
The dirty thoughts stay with me in my head. We have become rather ‘choosy’ if that is the right word. SOOO many couples out there are not very secure in their relationship. They lack trust. We have trust.
We have so much trust we would rather swing with singles, then couples…why you may ask? It allows US to be more intimate with one another. See, what is so unique to us, is that we ARE so VERY much in love, we love to be close—couples often split (same room) but we like to stay close—playing with single women or single men allow us to accomplish that.
Swingers sometimes are in the lifestyle for the wrong reasons, some lack self-confidence and need that EGO boost. Some (like us) are in it for the sheer delight in watching and being watched—it’s EXCITING!
What GETS awkward? When your “vanilla” friends (swinging-virgins) find out you are swingers and start to fantasize—that gets weird. We did this on our own volition..we wanted to do this, we choose to try it, and we found our way through the ups and downs—TOGETHER.
Now, I have a particular gentleman in mind for our play…he has been just that–a gentleman who has always known WHAT to say and HOW to say it…(single guys, listen up!) So many men approach us, thinking that we just want to get laid—which is not the case—we ARE about friendships, relationships, laughs and feeling IT. So, NO, I would NOT like to see your cock on Cam for the first time we met—I do realize, you would LOVE to see a BOOB the first time, however, that is not how women (women=sexy, sensual, spicy and gracious as well as kinky) work. If you want a hooker, go pay for one. Swingers are not “free hookers”. This particular guy has caught my wit, with his intelligent humor and throaty laugh.
Women—I adore them…again, the sexy, shy, kind that completely SHINE with persona and charm. Not the gross smelling lipstick smokey bar kind. Not the Ego-centric doesn’t leave the house without make-up kind….but the kind that wanders around the house asking for eggs over-easy and cuddles around the house in her pj’s…(hey, wait that’s me!) lol…seriously, we’re pretty down-to-earth…
but healthy (try to be)…We don’t smoke—so we don’t like to play with others that do. We drink on occasion, but prefer a good movie with guacomole and conversation…THEN the sex…oh, the sex…isn’t that why you are reading all of this?
Sex. G rated to XXX rated. We love it all. Kissing, fondling…probing, stroking, grabbing, softer to harder—much harder…the sounds, the smells, the slick feel of cumming all over between us—-this is how WE make love to one another—when it comes to swinging—usually other people are pretty mild to us, and we’ve had to ‘tone it down’, lol…we are made for one another, really, and that’s the why we love it….with the occasional spice to juice it up.